two sides to a coin theory

Why is it that when we want something the most... we have to be patient for it and when we get it we never seem to be happy with it? does everything in life come with a complaint form?

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okay so Rugrat and me finally got to meet up and the discussion on the 'every coin has two sides to it' was in progress.. unfortunately had to leave it midway cuz her 'pati' called ;) .. BUT i did get to put it to practise saturday night..and to be honest it did work..

so the two sides to a coin theory is whenever something good or bad happens..it is always upto us to choose what how we deal with the situation.. saturday night with a lil misunderstandings and a few painful people around to rub harshness in,i decided to walk out and not ruin people's saturday night plans.. that left me with little or almost nothing to do on a saturday night. In a really mad temper , while heading towards the metro station..rugrats convo replayed in my mind and thats when i decided - the incident which happened wasnt good BUT i could either go home and sulk the rest of the evening or clear the trash in my mind and do something fun, alone OR with friends.. i chose alone. and it definitely cheered me up. A whole lot! also, chanced upon a meeting with Maverick and had a wonderful discussion on the quarter life and got a lot of meaningful thoughts.. over coffee..

so yeah.. i think two sides to a coin theory helps.. unless your with 'pati' or bf (best friends) ;) you can't try it.

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Dear God,
anger management lessons are getting a little too much.. could we have a fewer number of lessons please.. am beginning to lose my cool.. Help!